Ask Ammanda: My wife doesn't want to have sex with me
15 Reasons Why You Don’t Want to Have Sex Anymore
When you first met your partner, there was electricity, there was passion, and there was sex—lots of it. While there are dozens of reasons for lack of lust—from illness to stress to scheduling—the truth is that sex is healthy for body and mind and builds closeness, intimacy and a sense of partnership in your relationship. We invite you to recognize the real-life obstacles to your healthiest, most fulfilling sex life, so you can find ways to overcome them. Sex Rx: Turn off to get turned on. All you're planning is the time slot—not how the deed will unfold.
These are some typical complaints I hear as a certified sex and relationship therapist. Often what lies beneath these complaints is a raw sense of fear, sadness, and hopelessness. The truth is that, most likely, many things are contributing to your wife avoiding intimacy with you. The question is, what can you do about it?
But if he does make you feel wanted and appreciated regularly, you just simply want to do something a lil extra for him from time to time, totally get it. And boy, oh boy, do we have some sexy tips for you. The good news: These tips work regardless of your relationship status.