There are certain things we look for in a partner in our teens that remain the same when we reach our thirties, forties, fifties and beyond. That being said, there are a few things that change as women age. These reflect their behavior and tastes in dating and relationships. Older men may have been through the mills and usually have a more jaded outlook on life. So the first step to attracting an older woman is to keep the mindset of a kid and just focus on the both of you having a good time.
I'm attracted to older women—like, in their 70s. Where do I pick them up?
When I was 11 years old, my mother silently snuck into my bedroom. Under the cover of midnight, she sat cross-legged at the end of my bed and proceeded to give me The Talk, although it was more of a whisper. Instead of focusing on the anatomy of sex — the biological prophecies by which, some say, our bodies were made to meld into one — my mother chose to emphasize pleasure. She spoke about the importance of passion: pursuing it, asking for it and finding it within yourself. Society has a tendency to perpetuate this idea that the older a woman grows, the more she yearns for the beauty of her youth. It was once bewildering to me that my mother could be so candid about sex.
Picking Up Cougars: Are They Easier Than Younger Women?
In other words, let her know that you find her sexy. As long as you are able to make her feel a lot of attraction for you, she will be excited that a guy like you who could easily pick up younger women is interested in her. The type of traits that turn cougars on are the same as what turns a younger woman, but you really have to put more focus on your masculine vibe.
Where can I meet an older woman? Where are the Cougar Dens? The answers are simple: Everywhere!